You're gonna have to point out where I told you how to raise your kids because I missed that partI just called out someone saying they don't care about the consequences of their play on others, said I don't think that's a laudible attitude, everything else is a misunderstanding or extrapolation. I also apologised for getting on my high horse about it. Then Jason starts telling me how to raise my kids. I think you're missing what's happening here mate. Thing is (and I'm surprised they've forgotten this) I'm totally on their side, I think the game should be open only, and agree that the consequences for pressing open are that you might get killed by a better/more prepared player. That's not the issue and never was. I have never been that kind of white knight, you know this. FD needs to do something about the blatant harassment described in the OP though. I prefer seal clubbing to that kind of shenanigan.